 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People |
| Marital Status: |
Swinger |
| Children: |
N/A |
| Education: |
College Graduate |
| Religion: |
Spiritual, but not Religious |
| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
Yes |
| Occupation: |
N/A |
| Body Type: |
Average |
| Height: |
5' 1" |
| Ethnicity: |
White / Caucasian |
| Languages: |
English |
Sexy Stuff
| I Am Looking For: |
Cyber Sex, Social Encounters, Erotic Chat, Cyber Friendships, Found Him. |
| Sexual Fantasies: |
Fetishes, Swapping, Domination, Bondage, A Beach, Costumes, Toys, Multiple People, Sadism & Masochism, Massage Oil, A Public Place, Exhibition & Voyeurism, playmates |
| Sex is Best: |
Passionate, Loving, Wild, Kinky, In a Relationship, playmates |
| Cybersex: |
Yes |
| I Want You To: |
Play Along With My Fantasy, Talk Dirty to Me, Tell Me Your Fantasy, fulfill my desires. |
| Cybersex Personality: |
Seductress/Seductor, Loving, Passionate, Dominating, Voyeur, Threesomes, The More The Merrier, Fun With Toys, Adventurous, Kinky, Wild, Role Player, Exhibitionist, graphic |
My Web Gifts
A gift from uname
Note:
Content:
Sent
12/12/2012
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SapphireJule's Scoop
About me:
For starters, I want everyone to know I am here to have fun. I do not want any complications, drama or bull shit. I want to have fun. I want to be able to log in and know I can go and be what I choose. If I choose to go meet people and dress like a raccoon I will. It does not mean I really want to dress like one. I am just making a point.
I am many things to many people but first and for most I am me. If you don't like me that is not my problem. I will not be what you want me to be just to please you. I am not attempting to come across as bitchy I am just explaining my stand point.
I have been in rlc off and on for over 5 years. I enjoy this place. It allows me to escape the stress of every day life. I don't want to come in here and have people cause me harm.
Both online and off I am experienced in the bdsm lifestyle. I am a Dominant. I am not a push over or even a control freak. I do, however, know what I enjoy and what I expect from anyone serving me. I always expect complete honesty and respect from EVERYONE.
I am not a sadist or enjoy causing intentional harm. I know some submissives and even Dominants love to feel pain, even require it for sexual or emotional gratification. I am not one of those. I do when needed by my submissives show a bit more control and roughness but I cannot continually provide pain to "pain sluts".
I prefer submissives who enjoy a heavy hand but can also handle a velvet glove. I do not always want harsh and hard-handed. I enjoy the softness of a body and the feel of warmth. A submissive should be able to adapt to what I need and desire while we mesh and become a unit.
A sub if/when I choose to accept will learn my needs and requirements. I do not just accept random people who claim to be submissive. I do not care if you are a real, online or bedroom submissive. I choose submissives that I feel comfortable with and I can see something strong growing. I, however, prefer my boys to be "men" and girls to be "ladies". I do not enjoy sissy boys or butchy girls. I choose females because they are soft and feminine. I choose males because they are strong in body and hard in nature...masculine. This does not mean I will never choose to play with others but I do know what I enjoy most.
I enjoy the bdsm lifestyle but it is not my entire life. I prefer to enjoy the multi-facet world in which we all live. I want to explore all that rlc and life have to offer. I would like to explore in depth the kinks and wills of those around me. Enjoy the roles we love to slip into but mostly want to explore the desires and intricacies of the human mind.
Everyone has limits...whether hard or soft limits. Anyone who claims to not have limits is either lying or has no clue what they want. When asked about limits I need the truth. We all have kinks and desires..some are a bit out there and sometimes confusing or embarrassing. No matter the kink I will love to learn about it or discuss it. If it is new to me it would be nice to hear someone else's take on it.
In addition to being Dominant I am also polyamorous. For those who do not know what that means... I do not do mono relationships. I enjoy having more than one relationship with people, multiple partners...sexual or romantic. I prefer not labeling what people are to me. It only puts strain on the relationships. No one relationship will always fit perfectly into a labeled box.
If I have left anything out please ask. However, my offline life is never up for discussion unless I choose to discuss.
Who I'd like to meet:
I prefer to meet people who do not want to play mind games or create drama. This is an adult site and I do not want to deal with the childish games of highschoolers. If you wish a relationship with someone no matter what kind you choose, romantic, platonic or other, you have to be willing to give it attention. Devote some time to cultivate that relationship or expect it to die. The "I'm with you until something better comes along" will not build a relationship; it will not build trust; it will only create issues that lead to disaster and heartache. I am not looking for that from anyone.
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